Just A Thought

I know I haven't written in a while, so I thought I would write about something thats been on my mind... a lot of my posts are negative, but thats just me trying to make everyone aware of the crap thats going on....

We only have one life to live... there are no second chances.  Why not try and make a difference in the world, in someone else's life, or try in some way to have a positive impact ?  I often see people change their morals because of  hardships, a certain group of friends that carry a negative energy bubble, or just plan out become lazy.  We are all human and the effects of certain situations... I do believe we share that outcome, but you have got to understand that we could have it so much worse.  If someone is bringing you down, or you cannot seem to get away from someone you think loves you (pretty common), just think to yourself you deserve better.   You have a purpose during your life, find it.  Setting positive goals really does make a difference. 

I'm not really sure what my purpose is yet, but I do my best at 90% of the things that are presented to me.  Ask yourself.... what was the last thing you've done that  "really" made a positive impact on your life or someone else's life...  I would really like to read the responses on that.

We share this world with 6 or so billion people... where is your place ?  what can you do to stand out ?

Why spend your time complaining about things ?  why not turn that energy into something positive ?

I encourage you to find someone that needs help (homeless, write a letter to a friend, volunteer), or you  exercise, pick up a book on self help, or try to teach someone something new.

I recently posted something on facebook that a lot of people seemed to like.... 

"I want to make something clear... I'm one of the first people that jumps to help when friends / family reach out. I'll go above and beyond to put a smile on someone's face, but at the same time when I offer my help over and over and I see no change I will remove myself from that situation and no longer offer my help, advice, time, or ear. This does not make me a bad person... sooner or later the negative energy that i'm trying to help "you" with will rub off on me... this is something I avoid, so please dont get it twisted and think i'm giving up. I'm only going to push you so far, but sooner or later change is up to "you" and how bad you truly want it."

I find that people will bring you down just because thats where their life is... don't let this happen to you.  Stay positive and try to make a difference.